#165: The One About Confidence


The One About Confidence

Let’s start with a little honesty circle. If you had to rank yourself on the Confidence Scale, where would you place yourself?

Had you asked me this question a couple of months, heck, even a couple of weeks ago, I would have definitely placed myself on the lower end of the scale. 🫣

But why? Where did my confidence run off to? I certainly don’t remember signing any permission slips…

Which made me realize, if we didn’t give it away, we’ve probably been conned out of our confidence somewhere along the line. And now we just need to figure out the culprits so we can get our confidence back!

So, I’ve narrowed it down to two of the most common reasons why we may have lost our confidence. The two biggest confidence ‘con artists', if you will.

And how do you beat a con artist? You reveal the con! 🔥

BUT, as in any great heist movie, you (I!) need a game plan. So what I’m also going to do is tell ya exactly how you’re (we’re!) going to flip the script so that we get back on the confidence train.

All aboard? 🚂 Let’s dive in!

Confidence Con Artist #1: We’re scared of making a mistake!

Sometimes, our lack of confidence comes from our fear of making mistakes. I get it. I definitely believed this confidence con for a long time! I was so scared of making a mistake and then being too embarrassed to move forward.

✨FUN FACT!✨ Today just happens to BE the perfect date! 😉 (Have I been waiting all year to use this. Yes. Yes, I have.)

What if we try and fall flat on our faces figuratively or literally? What if we try and whatever it is doesn’t work out? What if we totally embarrass ourselves in some way?

But GUESS WHAT!? That way of thinking is the confidence con! So how do we unmask it? When those thoughts try and stop our confidence in its tracks, we simply say, “So what?” And do it anyway. And if you do make a mistake? So what! You still did it. You still learned something. So, you’re still winning!

And in case you haven't seen Miss Congeniality 🚨SPOILER ALERT 🚨 it turns out pretty well for Miss Rhode Island in the end. 😉

And finally...

Confidence Con Artist #2: Our self-talk is in the negative 👎

Have you listened to your inner dialogue recently? I mean, really listened. What did you hear? Chances are, if you know you’re lacking self-confidence, your inner dialogue is probably a little negative. Probably more than a little, if we’re being honest.

And if your self-talk is negative, I'm here to tell you, you're being conned!

Start to really listen to your inner dialogue. When you catch yourself saying something unkind to yourself 🛑STOP!🛑. And think, “Would I say this to someone I love?” The answer is more than likely a big, fat NO! ❌ So, NO saying it to yourself either! Don't let that negativity train leave the station with your confidence on board. Stop it in its tracks and be KIND to yourself with that self-talk. And I guarantee your confidence will start to rise up again.

So, let’s unmask those confidence ‘cons’ and turn them into 'cans'! (Too far? But you get what I'm saying!) (I hope? 😬) Remember, nobody can offer what YOU offer. YOU are pretty amazing.

And if you do try and it doesn't go to plan? So what! You had the ✨confidence✨ to try in the first place.

- Jennay

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In each of these episodes, Carli will be sharing actionable advice on all things podcasting – from turbocharging your growth to navigating those mindset shifts, and delving into the world both behind and beyond the mic!

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Founder's Corner

In the spirit of confidence, I wanted to shake things up and introduce a new mindset...


But first, let's start at the beginning.

When confidence is your starting point, it can often be the limiting factor, especially when there is a lack of confidence.

This can hold you back from all the things you want to achieve; like launching your podcast, landing your dream guest, or even securing a sponsorship deal.

Now, instead of thinking of confidence as the starting point, let's see what happens when we view it as something that comes "full circle". 💡

Picture it not as a linear path but as a circle, 🔄 where confidence fuels your actions, and those actions, in turn, bolster your confidence.

Sure, there has to be some starting point somewhere...but hear me out.

➡️ Your confidence is connected to who you are.
➡️ Who you are feeds directly into what you do.
➡️ And what you do is, essentially,
your why!

Now, imagine when who you are aligns seamlessly with your why. It creates a synergy that propels you forward, infusing your journey with purpose, fulfillment, and, crucially, confidence.

This alignment forms the essence of what I like to call your personal confidence loop! 🔄

So, how can you integrate this concept into your podcasting journey? You embrace the confidence loop! Take a look: 👇

1. Authenticity Amplification 📣

By recognizing the interplay between who you are and why you podcast, you unlock the power of authenticity.

When you operate within the confidence loop, authenticity becomes not just another buzzword but a guiding principle, enhancing the impact of your podcast.

2. Resilience Reinforcement 💪

The confidence loop acts as a shield against setbacks and challenges.

When your actions are aligned with your purpose, setbacks become stepping stones rather than roadblocks.

Each obstacle becomes an opportunity for growth, reinforcing your resilience and fortifying your confidence in your ability to navigate the podcasting landscape.

3. Momentum Maintenance 🏃‍♀️

In the dynamic world of podcasting, momentum is everything! The confidence loop sustains momentum by fuelling your passion and drive.

When you operate from a place of alignment and purpose, each success fuels the next, creating a positive feedback loop of achievement and confidence.

This momentum propels you forward, carrying your podcast to new heights!

By embracing the confidence loop 🔄 you infuse your podcasting journey with purpose, authenticity, resilience, and momentum. It's not just about starting with confidence; it's about nurturing and sustaining it throughout your life.

Until next week!

Happy podcasting! 🎧

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